Things To Know Before A Threesome Adventure
Having sex for the first time can be a little nerve racking, what more a threesome sex adventure encounter that you had been fantasize and longing to explore it.
There are a handful types of sexual interaction involving three person, it is important to educate yourself and play your part right in order not to mess things up!
Threesome – 2 girls and a man.
One important factor that one should be very clear that whether is the 2 escort girls are lesbians. Ask the handling service provider or escort agency for clarification. This is crucial to know If you are looking for some lesbianism action. Threesome sex with lesbians are consider heaven on earth due to limited provision of such services in Asia.
Let us explore a little on how lesbian have sex. There are a lot of myth surrounding this topic and here are a few of them :
- Penetration. Someone has to be “the man” in the scenario. Some people believe that one partner does all the penetration while the other does all the receiving. This is the dynamic for some couples, but not all — and remember, penetrating doesn’t make you a “man.”
- Easy getting by. It’s easier because you’re both women. Remember that just because you’re both women doesn’t mean you have the same genitals — for example, one person might be a cisgender woman with a vagina, while the other might be a trans woman with a penis. Even if you do have the same genitals, every body is different. What one partner finds pleasurable, another partner might find boring.
- Scissoring. You have to scissor. Scissoring is when two people with vaginas open their legs and rub their vulvas together. While some people enjoy this, it’s a huge myth that all lesbians do this. Many people find it impractical and unpleasurable.
- STD or Pregnancy. You don’t need to worry about STIs or pregnancy. It’s possible to get pregnant if one partner has a penis and another has a vagina. It’s also possible to spread STIs from one person to another, no matter what their genitals are.
- Sexual pleasure. Orgasm is the end goal. Most people think that sex ends when one or both partners orgasm. This doesn’t have to be the case. Sex can be pleasurable without orgasming, and it’s totally fine to stop having sex without one or both of you orgasming.
- Dildo. Strap-on are sex toys that are often penis-like in shape. They attach to one partner’s pelvis using a harness or underwear-like attachment. They can be used to penetrate the vagina or anus. While these can be enjoyable, they’re not a must-have. Whether you use one is up to you.
Here are some tips on initial warm up on threesome sexual interaction.
Communicating with your partners. Asking for consent is crucial.
Even if your partner has already said that they want to have sex, it’s important to check in before the time comes. Remember that they have the right to withdraw consent during sex, as do you. If you’re nervous, talk to your partner about it. Share that you haven’t had threesome sex before, or that you haven’t done certain sexual activities.
Ask them what they enjoy doing or what they’d like to try, or share ideas of your own.
Here are a few smoothing question for permission:
- Are comfortable with this?
- Do you like the way i touch your…?
- Can i kiss you longer?
- Do you like it rougher?
- Are you enjoying the way i am inside?
- Do you want me to stop or go slower?
You should never make assumptions about what your partner does or doesn’t want. Always check in with them and ask what they’d like before taking it to the next level.
What to expect from breast and nipple play?
Remember that some people have sensitive nipples, so be gentle and ask your partner how much pressure they’d like you to apply.
Breast and nipple play could include:
- rubbing nipples between your forefingers
- gently pulling nipples
- licking, sucking, or kissing nipples or breasts
- using sex toys on nipples, such as nipple clamps, or using a vibrator or feather tickler on nipples
- using ice blocks or tingling lube on nipples to produce interesting sensations
What to expect from manual genital or anal stimulation?
Manual stimulation is about using your hands to pleasure your partner. Experiment with different motions, different kinds of pressure, and different speeds.
Depending on their anatomy and personal preferences, you could try things such as:
- rubbing their clitoris by trying circular and up-down motions at various speeds and pressures
- using a finger to find their G-spot, a rough patch of tissue in the vaginal wall
- lightly touching the area around their clitoris or vagina in a teasing motion
- touching the skin just outside of their anus
- penetrating their anus with your fingers
What to expect from oral genital or anal stimulation
Oral stimulation is exactly what it sounds like — using your mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner.
You can kiss, lick, or suck the:
- clitoris – it also known as pussy licking.
- area around the clitoris or vagina
- vaginal opening
- inner thighs
- anus
What to expect from fingering, fisting, and other penetration
Penetration is often associated with penises, but you can penetrate the vagina or anus with a range of different things, such as your fingers, your fist, or a sex toy.
Anal
If you’re going to have anal sex, you need a little more preparation. The anus doesn’t produce its own natural lubrication, so using lube is very important. Go gently, as the lining of the anus walls are thinner than that of the vagina.
You can try:
- penis-in-anus sex
- fingering the anus
- fisting the anus
- inserting a dildo or vibrator
- using an anal plug or other toy designed specifically for the anus
While the thought of having threesome sex for the first time can be overwhelming, the good news is that there’s lots of information out there to help you on your way.
The better news is that sex is a skill — and you’ll get better at it the more you practice!
Blog post by My Pinky Lady
